When you really care about someone and having a relationship with that special person your mind is partially dead. Half of your mind is controlled by your feelings.
Your mind decided to go away but your heart says "I still love him". You will still stay although that person has hurt u thousands of times.
Your mind decided to ignore and don't care about it but your heart says "I really care about him, i can't ignore him". You will still stay and care for that person even that person does not care about you anymore.
Your mind has decided to break up with that person but your heart says "I really love him. I can't live without him". You will still stay and still want to be with that person.
Yeah, we tend to follow our heart more than our mind. Although we have decide what we want to do in our mind, but still the heart wins. Even when we decided to follow our mind, we feel thousands of regret feeling that will haunt us.
In a relationship you should ask yourself this questions before deciding who to follow, ur mind or ur heart? Ask yourself "Is this relationship worth it?" "Is it still worth it to work things out when nothing is change?"
If you know it's still worth it, then follow your heart and continue. But if not then follow your mind and end it. Whatever decision you make, there will be a consequences you need to face.
P/s: Just a thought in my mind :D hehe
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