Knowing, that person has done wrong and u have lost ur patient towards them and start scolding them. Every word that come out from ur word can turn something that is already bad become even worst.
Another thing is when u lost ur temper u tend to not think clearly. Ur mind are partially dead. The feeling of anger is controlling u. We forgot that when we scold someone we forget their feeling. They can feel angry, hurt or maybe depressed. we forget the feeling of hurting someone, someone that we love.
I realize something today that saying sorry whole heartedly maybe its not an easy thing to do. Need encouragement, facts that u have done wrong, letting ur ego down, and controlling ur feeling. Especially the feeling of wanting to shout or angry. This happens right in front of my eyes.
I don't know that, a sincere sorry can be so hard to say. Maybe its because ur heart don't want to do it. But why? u know u have done wrong, u know it so clear. U hurt someone and what u do is to say sorry sincerely from ur heart not simply say and promise u wont hurt them anymore. Isn't that what u should do to someone u love?
A big ego is not something that u shld have when u have done something wrong. A sincere apology and promise that u wont do it again.. its the thing that u should do. This will show that u r truly a gentleman. Not a coward. Don't be angry because u know that u have done wrong and they want to correct u. Thanked them because they still care for u...
To be honest, I know u are a gentleman :)
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