Being kind effect?

Sometimes when we are kind to someone, they tend to think that they are special and they want more of your kindness. So they start with "I want this... from you,,  I want that.... from you".. 

Okay, that's is still fine because its not that often. Until that particular person start to decides everything for you. Just because you are kind to them and tend to help them because you are concern about them doesn't means that  they have to make a decision for you. And when you say "No", they dont care about your answer and manipulate it as a "Yes" and in the end you will have to do the "Yes" instead of  "No".

So this person particularly wants you to do everything and expect you to say yes to whatever the person wants to say and also after you have done what that person wants, its still not good enough and they will start complaining. 

this is really unexpected.. but i guess if you choose to be kind that this is what you will get. But there is also something that you can learn from being kind....

U get to know the true color of people...  
So be ready ;)