I have this conversation with one of my beloved friend, I was surprised when she said "I will burn all the memories and I will not remember it."
What a determination she has in those words, but still I know it wont be easy. To be honest it's never easy unless you have amnesia.
Memories wont die that is what I believe. Even we forget, there will be something triggering our brain to make us remember. It can be places, gifts, feelings and so on. Example, when you go to a place and suddenly you remember the crazy activity you did with your friends and how embarrassing it was or some similar feeling that you felt in the past that you feel again in the future. All of that will trigger your brain to remember the memories that at first you thought you have successfully forget it.
When she said those words, I wonder why should she tell me those words when she can't even forget anything ? When she can clearly remember and when I asked her something, she can explain it in detail and somehow it amazed me. But I understand why she decided to say that to me.
Memories will be always there in your mind because you keep it with your heart and view it in your mind especially those wonderful and memorable memories :)
The bad memories will be there too for you to learn the lesson.
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