On Being More Patient

Differences are there to show one another tolerance. I am on learning to be more patient.

I don't consider myself as a person with unlimited patience when someones keep on reminding me of the past mistakes that I had done. Yes, I clearly know what I have done, besides I'm not deaf. I don't need a reminder. 

Between siblings it's normal to have clash. I have this with my first younger brother sometimes. We are indeed different. Since I'm a girl and the eldest, I have this attitude of giving full respect to my parents and I will prove it through my action rather than talking, whereby my first brother he also gives full respect, but he likes to give critical opinion which means talk more, do later after the talk. I'm not comparing, because a guy and girl has different thinking and perspective. 

He loves to talk a lot but sometimes his words are indirectly causing discomfort to people feeling, and this time he did it to my mother. Well I was fine at first, because I know his intention is good and it's all for my mother sake, but I felt a little bit annoyed when he kept on repeating. I know my mother is getting old, but that doesn't mean a repetition is needed every single second. 

When he kept on repeating the same thing over and over again, I felt irritated but then it was funny how I feel. Although I felt irritated, but the feeling was not mix with hatred or what, it's just I get to see his caring side which makes me feel irritated but happy because he was doing this for my mother sake. 

I'm not a patient person when comes to this, because it deals with my parents. I want the best for them, and though my way and my brother way of showing our caring is different, still the intention is the same. Besides, I'm trying to understand the differences between each way, and being patient as well. 

I know that differences are there to train a person to be more patient in dealing with another person.